Monday, December 26, 2011

Transitions


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As a writer, I think a lot about transitions. When I’m working on a story or article, I want things to flow smoothly from one scene or idea to the next, always trying to make the ride less bumpy for my readers. But transitions in life aren’t always so smooth.

Last week, my father passed away, just two days before his 77th birthday. We had been planning a big party for him with children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Instead, we laid him to rest four days later, on my birthday.

It’s hard to believe he’s really gone. Perhaps I’m still a bit numb. But I’m grateful that I’m surrounded by a loving family, and through us, his legacy will live on.

I am wishing you all a new year of smooth transitions, in writing and in life.



21 comments:

  1. I'm so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family right now.

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  2. * I'm so sorry. I hope you find peace in the coming days and surround yourself with family and good memories.

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  3. I'm glad you are finding comfort from your family, Ruth. I will keep you in my prayers, and wish you a smooth transition to this new phase of life.

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  4. Ruth, I'm so sorry. Transitions...that's a good way to think of life,isn't it. We transition from one scene in our lives to another, and sometimes one of the characters in the last scene isn't with us any more. I hope this transition will become more peaceful and less painful as time goes on. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

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  5. It's terrible losing someone right around Christmas time. This is such a lovely time of year, how hard to have it tainted by death. Hoping that the Christ Child gives you peace and joy in the coming New Year. God bless!

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  6. Ruth, I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. This kind of transition is never easy, but praying that the Lord will strengthen and comfort you.
    Much love and blessings,
    Karen

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  7. Oh, my heart goes out to you, Ruth. I'm so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time.

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  8. My deepest heart-felt condolences on the passing of your father.

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  9. I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

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  10. My heart goes out to you. May you know grace and peace in this difficult time of transition.

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  11. Losing a parent is definitely one of the hardest transitions life gives to us. I'm so sorry you and your family have lost a person who was so important to you. The only comfort I can offer is that your father will live as long as you hold him in your thoughts and your heart.

    With sincere sympathy, Lee

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  12. So so sorry for your loss, Ruth. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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  13. Ruth, I am sorry for your loss. I am also enriched by the depth of your post as you embrace the family and memories you'll always treasure. Take care, Miranda

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  14. I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. My mum died in April of this year and it has been extremely painful going through the rituals of the last week without her. Take care of yourself and give yourself time to mourn.

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  15. My dear Ruth, I am so sorry to learn of your father's death. May he rest in peace always in the arms of our blessed Lord. And may He console you and keep all your family close to His heart.
    Vijaya

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  16. Sarah, Dawn, Katie, Mikki, Cat, Karen, Lynn, Mirka, Kelly, ElizabethAnne, Lee, Susanna, Miranda, Rosalind, and Vijaya - Thank you. Your heartfelt prayers and support mean so much to me.

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  17. Dear Ruth, I heard about this just few days before X'mas and I felt so bad for you and your family. Take care of yourself in this transition. Your father's legacy will live on through you.

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  18. I am so very sorry for your loss, Ruth. It sounds like your father was surrounded by a lot of love in his life.

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  19. Ruth, I am so sorry to hear about your father. I like your use or transition. Both my parents and grandson made their transitions within a 10-month period. But, I always felt the presence of grace around me. I hope you feel that grace in the love of family and friends. Sending you loving blessings!

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  20. Ruth, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that find comfort in your family and wish you the best!

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  21. I'm very sorry to read about losing your father, what a very sad time for you. Wishing you much peace in the coming year ...

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